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In memory of
Jared High
Suicide  Bullying  depression
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Definition: SCHOOL BULLY
  • Refusal (not inability) to think rationally about themselves and others; 
  • Small scale Terrorist, with behavior mostly taking place during school time; 
  • Justifies terrorist activities towards his/her targets or victims with self psychological excuses ("I want to appear tough and in control"); 
  • Enjoys enforcing power on others and causing extreme fear; 
  • Over-bearing person who tyrannizes the non-violent and physically less strong; 
  • To rule by intimidation, terror; 
  • Threatens or acts violence on others;
  • Calls an assault a "fight," "disagreement" or "justice."
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(The only differences between a terrorist and a bully, is in the organized planning or cause of the activity, and the scale of terror.  A bullied child will believe that there is no difference between a terrorist and a bully given the above definitions.)

"...imagine these things happening in our workplace. Imagine being harassed and humiliated day in and day out. Imagine being shoved in the hallways or knocked in the head--never knowing when the perpetrator will strike again. Imagine sitting quietly, eating your lunch, and being knocked from your chair. Just imagine that as your head hits the floor, you go in and out of consciousness, as you feel blow after blow, to your head and face. Imagine being told that if you ever defend yourself--you will be fired--but your attackers are allowed back the next day or the next week--to do it all over again.

"Hard to imagine, isn't it? How absurd to think that any business in the United States would operate in that fashion and stay in business. Yet, in the business of public education, we are telling our children to expect it and accept it. The reality is that others took Brandon's life long before he ended his pain. Brandon was courageous. He fought a valiant battle, enduring all these things--until he lost all hope. Just imagine."   Cathy, Brandon's mom (www.jaredstory.com/brandon.html)

It is believed that depression causes most teenage suicides, but this creates a new question - what causes the depression?  A person just doesn't wake up one morning with depression.  Psychologists believe that some people have a genetic tendency towards depression, some develop depression because of environmental triggers, and some people can have both genetic and environmental triggers,  (See "Teen Depression and it's Causes").   Brandon, (and Jared), developed depression from bullying at school as well as an assault by a bully/bullies in school.  The new term being used to describe this type of teen Suicide is, "bullycide," a suicide caused from the effects of bullying.

If you are doing some studies on bullying, (teen) depression or suicide, be sure and click on the other links to the right and/or support the advertisers on this page.  By supporting the advertisers on JaredStory.com, you keep this website active. 



These students were normal kids but they all had a devastating problem -- 
They were being bullied.   Read their stories in the links below.
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The Bullycide of Jared High
JARED HIGH
The Bullycide of April Himes
APRIL HIMES
The Bullycide of Jeffrey Johnston
JEFFREY JOHNSTON
 
 

The Bullycide of Matt Epling
MATT EPLING

The Bullycide of Ryan Halligan
RYAN HALLIGAN

   
The Bullycide of Sian Yates
SIAN YATES
The Bullycide of Jessica Haffer
JESSICA HAFFER
The Bullycide of Ben Vodden
BEN VODDEN
 
       
The Bullycide of Julian Houts
JULIAN HOUTS

AUSTIN MURPHY
The Bullycide of Cassie Gielecki
CASSIE GIELECKI
 
       
The Bullycide of Brandon Swartwood
BRTWOOD
The Bullycide of Kristina Calco
KRISTINA CALCO
The Bullycide of Desire' Dreyer
DESIRE' DREYER
 


MARIA HERRERA

The Bullycide of Corinne Wilson
CORINNE WILSON

 

The Bullycide of Thomas Trosvik
THOMAS TROSVIK
 
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The Bullycide Memorial
MATT EPLING
RYAN HALLIGAN
JARED HIGH
JULIAN HOUTS
JEFFREY JOHNSTON
AUSTIN MURPHY
BRANDON SWARTWOOD
THOMAS TROSVIK
BEN VODDEN
KRISTINA CALCO
DESIRE' DREYER
CASSIE GIELECKI
JESSICA HAFFER
APRIL HIMES
CORINNE WILSON
SIAN YATES
MARIA HERRERA
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Bullycide in America...Moms Speak Out!!!
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Our Next (FREE) Conference Call is planned for Tuesday, May 13, 2008, 5 PM Pacific Time, (8 PM Eastern Time).  The topic will be: Getting state laws and school district policies passed.  Plus, How to help your child become less of a target by bullies in school; keeping proper records.  There may be time for Q&A for your child's bullying situation too.  The conference phone number is 1-218-936-7607 and Conference pin is 241967 # (pound key). Please RSVP if you wish to join to, brenda (at) jaredstory (dot) com.
SUPPORT YAHOO GROUP HAS BEEN FORMED - Elizabeth Bennett (Director B.P.-CA) has agreed to moderate a National Bully Police Yahoo Group for those who are interested.  Go to the Group home page: http://groups.yahoo.com/group/bullypoliceusa and click on “Join Group” to get the process started.  You can also email bullypoliceusa@yahoogroups.com for instructions.  Check out www.bullypolice.org for State Yahoo Groups that are now forming.
HEAR JARED'S VOICE - PLAY - From an interview with Pasco School District investagators concerning the assault.  This is a recording of a recording and it isn't real clear, but worth the download effort.  Jared had a real mellow voice.     Note: If you have a slow load wav, wait for it to load entirely and then play again from the start.   5 minutes long.

WHAT PARENTS CAN DO TO STOP BULLYING!  or
WHAT PARENTS CAN DO TO STOP BULLYING ON PDF

Joey's Memorial Video    -      Miss Virginia's Quilt (PDF)
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HERO IN THE HALLWAY  - Video posted on YouTube

Take Action! Stop "CyberBashing" - Talk to your Congressman
Example of a letter sent to Congressman Doc Hastings

Losing sleep over finding a lawyer?  Check out: The National Center of Victims of Crime - www.ncvc.org or call 1-800-394-2255
 
 


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