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In memory of
Jared High
Note: Dacia was asked to find two people who were being bullied at school so that she could share them at the Washington State House Education Committee.  Story #2 was shared to the committee on January 28th 2002 in Olympia.  According to Dacia, it was easy to find these stories.

Dacia's "Homework" Assignment

Story # 1: (a friend)

When I was in elementary school, I was teased a lot.  Different people called me names like fatso, ugly, and would talk about me when they thought I wasn't listening.  I couldn't begin to tell you what they would do when the teachers were not around. One thing I will not forget is how they would push me and throw things at my head.

At night I would go into my room and shut the door.  I would stay up crying and wishing I were dead.  I have tried to kill myself many times.  Now I am in high school and nothing has changed.  I still want to die but I go to counseling to get help.  I wish something can be done to stop this.

Story # 2: (a girl found crying in the High School hall)

Every morning I wake up and ask why am I still here.  I hate it (bullying).  I wish I could be dead, the way some people talk to me and act towards me.  Its continuous, it never stops.  Every day I get up and go to school knowing what will happen and it hurts to think about it.  I can tell my dad or mom what happens at school but every time I do they say you need to learn how to get a long with others.  They don't know what it is like for me.

I have not tried suicide but I think that if these kids do not stop I will.  Instead of suicide I cut myself.  My mom and dad try to help me.  I am taking pills and going to teen centers.  They do not help.  I would like to be set on fire and burn, than have to go back to a place where kids pick on me.   I get hit in the halls and everyone will turn and laugh.  One time I had a crush on a popular kid and his girlfriend would write notes saying they were from him.  They were cruel notes.   It hurts to know no one likes me.

Dacia contemplates her testimony inside the State House Committee Room

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STORIES OF "BULLYCIDES"
(SUICIDES ATTRIBUTED TO BULLYING)
STORIES OF BULLYING
SURVIVORS WHO SPEAK ABOUT THE PAIN
The "Bullycide" of Jared High
The "Bullycide" of April Himes
The "Bullycide" of Jeffrey Johnston
The "Bullycide" of Jessica Haffer
The "Bullycide" of Corinne Sides
The "Bullycide" of Ryan Halligan
Our Special Cassie
The "Bullycide" of Matt Epling
"I wish I could reverse time"
"Nice Girls Finish Last Too"
Bullies who Kill - Brandon's Story
The "Bullycide" of Desire' Dreyer
Matthew's Story
Bruce's Story
The "Hidden" Disability
School, The Nightmare!
"When Black Ants Scream" (pdf)
Dacia's "Homework"
Wounded Kids/Parents talk
Roger Dean Kiser
Silent Rage by Bill Rose
Joey's Page - BullyFree4Me
Questions about Jared & Bullying
The Gentle Giant
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ARTICLES Bullying
ARTICLES Bully-Prevention
An Interview With a Killer
School Violence Chat on ABC
"Popularity Wars" - Dr. M. Thompson
Been Harassed at Work?
The Legal Connection
Grading Anti Bullying Laws
Been Harassed in School?
Bullying is an ADULT Problem
STOP BULLYING!
Suicide and Schools
Letter to the Education Committee
Making a Difference
An Anti Bullying "Travel Log" in AZ
AMA - Physicians & Bullying
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BULLYING OR "BULLYCIDE" in the NEWS
Victims Fight Back - lawsuit
The Wounded Spirit
Wounded Kid's talk
Serious Bullying - School Shootings
$11 Million Ruling - NY
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HEAR JARED'S VOICE - PLAY - From an interview with Pasco School District investagators concerning the assault.  This is a recording of a recording and it isn't real clear, but worth the download effort.  Jared had a real mellow voice.     Note: If you have a slow load wav, wait for it to load entirely and then play again from the start.   5 minutes long.

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"The school ground bully has been around for too long.  His entire success at bullying is predicated upon arrogant disregard to simple decency, and a willingness to brutalize an innocent victim simply because the bully is bigger and stronger and others are afraid to intervene.  It is insidious and calls for society and government to intervene decisively.  This bullying bill is a start.  As you deliberate this bill please reflect on the fact that Government's primary purpose for existence is for the protection of its innocent citizens.   ...Then remember your bully as a child."        Congressman Trent Franks (R) Arizona

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School Bullying is an Adult Problem
Online Bullying – Solving the Cyberbullying Problem
How to Stop School Bullying

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