In memory of
Jared High
July 1984 - May 2001
For the Love of Kasey

(by Kasey at age 11)

I am kind and friendly.
I wonder how you dream.
I hear someone in pain.
I see stars.  I want candy.
I am kind and friendly.
I pretend to sing.
I feel neat.  I touch stars.
I worry when we will have a war.
I cry when someone dies.
I am kind and friendly.

The Weaver

My life is but a weaving,
Between the Lord and me.
I cannot choose the colors,
He worketh steadily.
Oft times He weaveth sorrow,
And I in foolish pride,
Forget He sees the upper,
And I, the underside.
The dark threads are as needful, 
In the weaver's skillful hand, 
As the threads of gold and silver 
In the pattern He has planned.
Not 'til the loom is silent
And the shuttles cease to fly.
Shall God unroll the canvas
And explain the reasons why.
Author Unknown

Kasey left this earth to be in his loving Heavenly Father's care in May 2001.  Our precious Kasey, after only being with us for nearly 17 years will be sorely missed by those who knew and loved him.  He was born in July 1984, a son of Michael and Stacy.

He had a Tender Spirit
that we could not hold to this earth with our love.

He was an active member of The Church of Jesus Christ of Latter-day Saints.  He was faithful in his duties as a Priest.  He was proud that he had received his Arrow of Light Award in Scouting.  He enjoyed his dirt bike and being with his family.  He enjoyed sharing his computer expertise with his family and friends.  He was a good student and was often on the Honor Roll.

"For God so loved the world that he gave His only son, that whoever believes in Him shall not perish but have eternal life."     John 3:16

"Peace I leave with you, my peace I give unto you: not as the world giveth, give I unto you. Let not your heart be troubled, neither let it be afraid."  John 14: 27

"For behold, this is my work and my glory-- to bring to pass the immortality and eternal life of man."  Moses 1:39

BIO POEM by Kasey at age 15
Lazy, skinny, intelligent and dependable - Son of Mike and Stacy - Lover of motorcycles, music and money - Who feels restricted, useless, and OK - Who needs a Dodge Viper, a Pepsi - And a Wendy's Spicy 
Chicken Sandwich Combo - Who fears spiders, rejection and the future - Who gives his opinion, 
respect and attention - Who would like to see the future, 
the past, and Mars
For more information on Kasey’s story go to For the Love of Kasey
UNTREATED DEPRESSION IS THE #1 CAUSE OF SUICIDE - By Kasey's mom, Stacy.   Email Stacy (Kasey's mom)

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